Wednesday, September 03, 2014

Keys

I once read a quote that was stuck in my mind for quite some time. I don't remember the exact sentence, but it sounded like this:

"We can never be happy if we choose to put our keys to happiness in everyone else's pocket."

There is some truth to this quote, isn't it? To a certain extent, our value of self worth is contingent on how others reflect upon us. What everyone else think is so important that we will go the extra mile just to please and impress them. Our 'image', 'impression', 'popularity', 'charisma', 'people's skill', or call it whatever you like, it revolves around people, and such quality become even more important in the working life. Sure, each of us can just live alone is a deserted island, then all the 'keys to happiness' belong to us and we can do whatever we like without judgement. But until then, we live in a society, thus contact and communication with people is the norm. 

So what happen when you let others keep your 'keys to happiness? They have total control of your mood in general. When they shower you with attention, even if it's to curry some favor from you, you will feel great, awesome, happy that you are someone important in their life. But when they ignore you, don't appreciate everything you've done for them, you will feel frustrated, angry, and perhaps even betrayed. It can be your boss, a person you secretly admire, that group of clique you've been trying to join, basically someone you've been trying to seek approval and acknowledgement from.   

Sounds pathetic isn't it?
Sometimes I live my life thinking I've been doing exactly all that.

Some of Will Smith's quote:

"We spend money that we do not have, on things we do not need, to impress people who do not care."

"Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind, feelings and emotions."


Well said.
Time to take back my keys, and give them to those who really matters.

Thursday, January 30, 2014

Melbourne and Adelaide (13th Dec 2013- 20th Dec 2013)

We visited 2 places in Australia

Melbourne: to catch the live Taylor Swift concert (my siblings are her biggest fans)

Adelaide: to visit the neighbourhood where my sister is staying. She is studying in UNISA.

Being the 2nd most populated city in Australia after Sydney, I find Melbourne to be a clean, organized, and well connected city. We joined a bus tour that took us around the major attractions of the city, with the bus driver slash tour guide giving us a short intro and trivia of each attractions. For families with children and elderly, this is an efficient and fuss-free way to cover many grounds in a short span of time, minus all the walking. Of course, the bus did pull over at each stop for tourists to snap some pictures.

    St Paul's Cathedral, known for its distinctive gothic architecture  



Fritzoy's Garden, breathtaking garden landscape and floras, perfect place to relax



 Queen Victoria's market. Bustling with activities, stalls brimming with fresh produce, clothes and souvenirs, this is a place not to be missed! 

The streets are decked with Christmas decorations in the blazing hot summer, very unconventional to the cold and snow we associate Christmas with, but nevertheless, still a refreshing experience. Here's Bourke Street, also dubbed by us as the 'our nearest main shopping street' because both sides of the streets are lined with shop outlets.    
Bourke Street

Of course, the highlight of the trip (for my siblings) is none other than Taylor's Swift Red Tour concert in Etihad's stadium. I'm not into Taylor Swift, but her concert is really impressive. Her style, body language, the way she speaks, the way she relates to her song, perfectly done. There is no one dull moment on stage. It makes me realize she is not there on top among the stardom just by having a good voice, but with plenty of sophistication and style too.

Swifties Siblings


The day before we depart to Adelaide, we joined a tour a Philip Island, an island southeast of Melbourne that is accessible by land after a bridge was built connecting it to the mainland, kinda like our Penang Bridge. We visited a vineyard, chocolate factory and koala park, and a beautiful coastline named Seal Rock inhabited by, as the name suggested, seals. At night, it's time for the Penguin Parade where hordes of penguins from the ocean march their way across the beach to build their nests, lay eggs and take care of their young. The adorable way the penguins "waddle" across the beach and to see the young fluffy baby penguins is worth the chilly night. 



Panny's chocolate factory. Many interactive carnival-like games that you can play for free. Your winnings will be chocolate ball tokens that you can redeem for real chocolate balls! Yummy!  


 Koala bears, or simply 'koala', because despite the name, koala bears are not a species of bears 

    Walkways to see seals resting on the rocks at Seal Rocks


In Adelaide, we visited the Cleland Wildlife Park, which boast a wide variety of rare-to-see animals such as dingoes, wombats, wallabies and even reptiles and large birds. What's notable about this park is that all the animals are free-roaming so visitors can go up close to the animals, with no unsightly cages or enclosures. Unfortunately, these rare-to-see animals are literally rare-to-see during our visit because many are seeking refuge from the summer heat by hiding in the shades. Nevertheless, there are still plenty enough to see. 



     Wallabies, it's easy to confuse them with kangaroos

The final big trip is to Kangaroo island on a cruise ship. There are not many wildlife on this island, but it more than make up for it with its beautiful coastlines, blue ocean, and sandy beaches. The sunset is also amazing!  








It has been one week of fun and relaxation. Australia is the perfect haven for nature lovers, and I do hope to explore it again someday. For now, back to home sweet home. The weather here is still the best after all! 

Sunday, January 26, 2014

The Year of the Wooden Horse

Happy New Year!

Well, not exactly, since it's already one month into the new year.
It's the year of the Horse, my chinese zodiac, which means I've been through the cycle of 12 zodiacs twice, making me 24 years old this year!

As much as I find time to update my blog, it seems to be failing miserably. Work is one thing, but the lack of good internet accessibility once I'm home from work is a major factor. Hopefully, this year I can move into my new home and find a good internet service provider willing to set up service at that newly established area.

Can't wait for Chinese New Year! Taking a long break from work.

Should probably update my Australia trip soon.